The school year has begun
A recap of the summer
My adventure of life jumped on the rapids for a bit.
Literally.
I am SO very thankful for many things, but most of all that I listened to what God put on my heart at the beginning of the year. I started the conversation of moving early with Ben when I felt the nudge and I also advocated for putting the house on the market early. I remember telling him that I would much rather have a crazy summer of selling a house and finding housing across the country, than have a crazy school year and be trying to do that on top of teaching and activities and actually moving. And Praise the Lord I had that foresight!
After our open house, we had a couple more showings. Each time was promising but would turn out to be nothing. We went on vacation for a week to the Adirondack mountains and I was sure that we would have showing requests while we were gone, but I was wrong. It was, however, nice to unplug for a week and not clean a house.
1st Open House
An awkward showing
Mint house is officially on the market! It's only been a few days and it already feels like forever. That's probably because for over a month, people have been telling us that it's going to sell SO fast and maybe even before it hits the market. They were all wrong.
Fun Fact: we were walking through Central Park when Ben made the call to list the house.
When no news isn't good news
We ended up only have that one showing last week. I'm very confused where all the other people went...I'm very confused what God is doing right now, but I know He's doing something. The couple that looked at our house, emailed with a few questions the following day and then we haven't heard another word from them. People said our house would be sold right now, and it's not. They also say that as soon as we officially list it, it will be gone. I'm preparing myself that they are wrong.
We had a busy enough week without showings, so I actually saw it as a blessing.
Sea Cliff is a very unique place to live, and while it's not my paradise, I can see how it is for other people. The Porch Pickers played a concert on the beach. It was an absolutely beautiful evening and kids were running around playing and dancing to the music. Parents were chatting and eating by the little cafe. You could see the Greek Festival going on across the water and I hear that Jimmy Fallon was there ;
First Showing
Canceled Plans
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This might be one of the craziest weeks of my life, so I thought what better time to blog!
Just 24 hours ago, Ben put up a post on the Sea Cliff Facebook page saying that we will be listing our house to sell in the next couple of weeks. We have been told by several Sea Cliff people that this is how they prefer to sell houses and simply word of mouth will get the house sold. We thought we would just give them a heads up to get the word going around. Pretty much immediately Ben started getting messages about the house. To our surprise, he spent the evening chatting with so many people that he started to have a hard remember who was who. Ben received almost 40 messages about the house. Some were realtors trying to get our business, some were "I'm sharing this with my cousin who is trying to get in the area" and some were "I've lived in that house!"
It was such a blessing to receive such positive feedback about the house and exciting that people were immediately interested. Also, PRAISE THE LORD I started working on some decluttering and deep cleaning a few weeks ago, because we have a showing in the morning! And another one the following day. And 2 more people who want to schedule a time to come look at it. But we've had a full week and just had a garage sale Saturday, which meant the house was neglected. So, after church, we all pitched in to clean it up and get things ready.
I have a couple of projects that I intended to do before we showed the house and now I'm debating whether it's worth it or not.
#1. Bleach the kids bathroom floor.
I did this once before company came and it looked really good, but also took me several hours of scrubbing.
#2. Touch up the paint on the kitchen cabinets
I guess instead of doing those big projects, I cleaned the stainless steal and baked some chocolate chip bars to cover up the broccoli smell from dinner. I'm wondering if the pretty fridge will mask the fact that you can't open the door all the way.
The house is ready; just need to fold some laundry. Groceries are ordered to be delivered tomorrow. Now, I just need to do some praying over this week, pick up some diet coke and try to not lose my mind keeping this house clean.
Raising teenagers
Life Right Now
A half eaten protein bar by the TV that Alison left before she went to work.
Socks everywhere...why?
Xbox controllers covering the couch
VR headset on the floor
An ipad charging on the heater, waiting to chat with Tolson while playing Minecraft
Kitty that Maya insists on bringing out
Maya's pajamas under the coffee table
A t-shirt and hoodie discarded on the table
Lego sets and scraps of packages and a million little legos that no one knows what to do with
This beautiful sight is my life right now with a tween and two teens...and 8 year old dog, who belongs in the desert. Sure, it looks like we spend way too much time on electronics to the outside world, but that's another topic for another day. For now, I just want to soak up this day. Because there will be day that I miss this sight.
To write again
I've had this pull to write again.
And that sentence has sat open for weeks. There is something I love about writing and there is something inside that equally holds me back. It's the same hold that made me stop writing years ago. I'm still working to unearth that hold...is it simply fear? is it pride? is it insecurity? or a messy mix of them all?
I started this blog 11 years ago; a whole different life ago. I started it as a place to write for myself but I floundered knowing who my audience was and my purpose in writing. There are so many things I wish I could say to that girl. First one would be: don't stop. Just write. Let yourself fail and grow and learn. Let yourself change over the years and be okay with passing seasons.
I've challenged myself to write again and let it be messy and completely imperfect and written to absolutely nobody. I've challenged myself to write things that I look back on and think "why did I write that?" or maybe even to write something that offends someone. I might even just put random pictures on every post.
Life has changed so much that my recent pictures are taken in Grand Central Station. I'm not even sure what my life is.
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